Being a creature unlike any other is a state of mind. It can be learned, practiced, and mastered like all the other rules in the book. It is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. Its the way I smile [that lights up the room] I listen attentively,look [demurely, I never stare] I Love GOD above everything else. I love myself I think I'm grand! I trust in the abundance and goodness of the universe. I believe in love and marriage. I'm not cynical. I don't go to pieces when a relationship doesn't work out. Instead I get a manicure and pedicure spa and spend the greatest time of my life with my best friend. I'm an optimist. I brush away a tear so that it doesn't smudge my make-up and I move on! Of course, that is not how I really feel. This is how I pretend I feel until it feels real. You act as if! I'm cool! My gestures are soft and feminine. When my hair falls in front of my face, I tilt my head back and comb back my hair with my hand from the top of my head in a slow, sweeping motion. I take care of myself I love taking bubble bath, read books, and built up my soul with positive slogans like, " I'm a beautiful woman. I am enough." I'm beautiful inside and out. The secret: you act as if everythings great! I'm demure, a bit mysterious. Success talked. I swallowed some of our preconcieved theories, I followed the rules faithfully and sometimes break them . There I was~ a secret underground, sharing the magic, passing it on, doing what historically women have done for each other since the world began~ networking for success.